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1. ROMANTIC # 1 LONG VERSION
On the ____ day of the week, the ____ day of
the month of _____,
in the year _____, corresponding to the ____ day of the month of
_______, in the year ______ , the Bride, ____________, and the
Groom, _____________, stand before God and these witnesses to
join their hearts and their lives together as Husband and Wife.
And they said to each other, “My Beloved,
you are my Lover, my
Best Friend, my Soulmate, and my Life Partner. I found joy
when I found you. You inspire me and bring out the best in me; I
am a better person because of you. You make me strong, but you also
help me to depend on God in my weakness. You not only have my
love, you have my respect and admiration.”
“My Darling, we have it all: passion, love,
companionship, trust, and
unity. You make me smile; you make me laugh; you fill me with desire;
you fill me with delight and make my life richer. The colors of life are
brighter when I am with you and I feel so much more alive. You never
bore me; I am fascinated by the many facets of you. You are Fire to
ignite my passion and Cool Water to quench my thirst and refresh me.
You are Light in my darkest days and Goodness that gladdens my heart
when the world seems filled with evil. You are beauty, from the inside
out---the kind that will last forever."
"I am amazed and blessed by your love and
loyalty, and I know that
you are the one person in the whole world I can depend on. You will
never betray me; I can trust you with every part of me. I promise
that I will never take these qualities for granted. I will value and
treasure all that you are, all that you do, and all that you believe.
But,
my Love, I do not expect perfection and I know that you do not
expect it of me. We both Know that only God is perfect; human
beings are not. We fail and miss the mark. We will make mistakes;
we will misunderstand and cause each other pain at times. It hurts
me now to think that will happen, but I understand its inevitability.
We cannot promise to never wound each other, but we can promise
to always forgive the wounding. We cannot promise to never be
offended, but we can promise to never hold on to offense, and we
can promise to allow God's virtue to heal our hearts and restore our
unity and trust. These are our declarations of love, our promises,
and the vows we will hold sacred."
Rabbi/Officiant ________________________
Bride _________________ Groom ___________________
Witnesses ___________________ ____________________
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2.
ROMANTIC #1 (short version)
On the ____ day of
the month of _______, in the year ______,
corresponding to the ____ day of the month of ________, in
the year ______ , the Bride, ____________, and the
Groom, _____________, stand before God and these witnesses to
join their hearts and their lives together as Husband and Wife.
And they said to each other, “You are my
Beloved, my Best Friend,
my Soulmate, and my Life
Partner. You inspire me and
bring
out the best in me; I am a better person because of you.
You
make me strong, but you also help me to depend on God
in my weakness.
You not only have my love, you
have my respect and admiration.”
“My Darling, we have it all: passion, love,
companionship, trust, and deep friendship.
You make me smile and laugh; you fill me with desire; you delight
me and
make my life richer.
I am
fascinated by the many facets of you. You are Fire to ignite my passion
and Cool Water to quench my thirst and refresh me.
You are
Light in my darkest days and Goodness
to soothe my heart when
the world seems filled with evil.
You are beauty, from the inside
out---the kind that will last forever."
"I am blessed by your love and
loyalty and I know
that you are the one person I can depend on
and trust
with every part of me.
I promise that I will never take these
qualities for granted. I will
value and treasure all that you are, all
that you do, and all that
you believe. But, my Love, I do not expect
perfection from you and I know
that you do not expect it of me. Only God is perfect;
we humans
fail and miss the mark. We make mistakes;
we misunderstand
and cause each other pain at times.
It hurts me now
to think of it, but I understand its inevitability.
We cannot promise to never wound each other, but we can promise
to always forgive the wounding. We cannot
promise to never be
offended, but we can promise to never hold
on to offense, and we
can promise to allow God's virtue to heal our hearts and restore our
unity and trust. These are our declarations of love,
our promises to each other,
and the vows we will always hold sacred."
Rabbi/Officiant ________________________
Bride _________________ Groom ___________________
Witnesses ___________________ ____________________
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3. ROMANTIC # 2: YOU ARE MY BELOVED. MY SOULMATE
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You are my Beloved, my Soulmate, as necessary to me as
the air I breathe. Without
you, my life would be empty; with you, I have everything. You and I have
dreamed
of this day and, now, it is here: our Wedding Day. We are uniting our
hearts, our
lives, and our destinies as we enter the Sacred Covenant of Marriage.
My heart is filled with joy, knowing that we are beginning our journey
through life
as Husband and Wife. There is no one else I would want by my side---only
you.
You are my Best friend, my Lover, my Other Half. You bring out the best
in me and
make me a better person. You make me smile, you make me
laugh; you make me see things a little more clearly and you make each
day so much
brighter. I look forward to the years we will spend together.
We promise to love, honor, cherish, and support one
another, no matter what comes
our way. We will endeavor to face every challenge and opportunity with
faith and
courage, looking to God to give us the strength that we need to live a
victorious and meaningful life. We will be faithful and loyal to one
another, rejoicing
together in times of blessing, comforting each other in times of sadness
and sorrow,
encouraging one another in times of trial and testing, and celebrating
each other's victories and accomplishments.
Let us build a life based on love,
respect, honor, openness, trust, acceptance, integrity,
loyalty, and faithfulness. Let us make our home a place of peace,
serenity, and
contentment, a place where mercy and forgiveness always triumphs over
any offense,
a place where all who enter feel welcomed and appreciated.
Today, on the ___ day of the week, the
____ day of the month of _______, in the
year _____, which corresponds to the ___ day of the month of ______, in
the year
_____, here in the city of _________, the state of ___________,
_______________
and _____________ have been joined together in the Holy Covenant of
Marriage.
They are now declared to be Husband and Wife.
Rabbi__________________
Bride _____________ Groom ___________
Witness __________ Witness ___________
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4. ROMANTIC #3:BELOVEDS AND BEST
FRIENDS SHARING |
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We are Beloveds and Best Friends, sharing a love that will never
diminish but, rather,
will grow deeper with time. We will be faithful and loyal to each other
throughout all the days
of our lives, celebrating the special gifts and unique attributes that
each of us brings to this Marriage.
We will support each other through all of life's challenges and
blessings, comforting each other in times
of sorrow as well as celebrating together in times of joy and triumph.
We will be open and transparent with
one another, sharing or thoughts, our feelings; our hopes, and our
dreams, as well as our hurts and
disappointments. We will not only speak---we will listen and endeavor to
really hear what the other is saying.
We will fulfill
our God-given destinies together and support each other in all Godly
endeavors. We will pray
together and follow God's Word together for as long as we live. Our home
will be a place of Peace, Love, and
Acceptance; it will reflect the character of God. It will be a place
where all feel welcome.
Forsaking all others, we will cleave only to each other saying,
"Wherever you go, I shall go, and wherever you live,
I shall live. Your people shall be my people and your God is my God.
Everything we do in life shall be a reflection
of our commitment to God and to each other."
This Ketubah witnesses that on the_____day of the month ______, in the
year _______ , which corresponds
to the _____ day of the month of_________ , in the year____ , in the
city of__________ , in the state of
____________ , the Bride, _________________, Daughter
of_______________________,
and the Groom_______________ , Son of ____________________ ,
were joined together in the Holy Covenant of Marriage.
These Holy vows
are witnessed to and attested to by:
Rabbi__________________
Bride _____________ Groom ___________
Witness __________ Witness ___________
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